Etiquette
Hygiene/Cleanliness —
Personal care is key to setting the tone for our time together. Just as I always show up freshly showered, smelling great with minty-fresh breath, I truly appreciate the same in return. When we both feel and look our best, everything flows more naturally, and the experience is even more enjoyable.
Please take a moment at the start of our date to wash your hands with soap and use mouthwash if needed.
Smoking & Substances —
I do not smoke or use recreational drugs (including marijuana or cigars) and prefer not to be around smokers. I have a very sensitive sense of smell, and lingering smoke odors can cause headaches or make me feel unwell. If you are a smoker, we will not be a good fit.
Consideration/Payment —
Please have my consideration prepared in an envelope at the start of our time together (ideally within the first 15 minutes). If we’re meeting in public, you’re welcome to place it discreetly inside an inconspicuous item. Feel free to get creative here!
Deposits & Cancellations —
To secure your date, a non-refundable deposit of 20% is required. I’d appreciate you sending this over in a timely manner and especially if you are planning for us to meet within the next 24-48 hrs. My schedule gets filled up quickly.
Cancellation fees are as follows:
Cancel less than 48 hours before our meeting: 50% of rate expected via one of my deposit methods
Cancel > more than 48 hours before our meeting: Your deposit can be applied once toward a rescheduled date within 60 days.
If I ever need to cancel, I will refund your payment immediately using the same method you paid with. I have never had to cancel on anyone yet!
If a gift-card is used to pay a deposit, please note these are not refundable under any circumstance.
Respect & Boundaries —
A meaningful connection begins with mutual respect. I value warmth, kindness, and clear communication. Boundaries create comfort—and comfort creates chemistry. If I am made to feel uncomfortable at any point on the date, I reserve the right to end the date on the spot without refund.
Over-nights —
On over-nights I request at least 7 hrs of uninterrupted sleep to ensure I am well rested to be my best self.
Reviews —
I value genuine, personal connection and see our time together as something meaningful and private. Out of respect for that, I kindly ask that you do not share or post reviews or public commentary about our time together.